Recent content by cristina

How the hell do you get over it though? I am going through almost exactly the same thing... Infidelity, lies and going behind my back and yet pleading for another chance and a future poly paradigm. How do you go back to trusting this person? Even though we were technically broken up, it feels...

Things had been bad with my boyfriend of three years for almost a year – we were in a rut and I felt so alone and unloved. Somehow I had all the disadvantages of attachment and none of the advantages – we were not partners. We are not good communicators; he doesn’t communicate unless forced to...