Recent content by CrushedIce

I completely agree with you, this is a pretty logical summary. Posting in this forum opened up a new way to communicate with K and helped me to have a healthier discussion about it with her. She did agree that her requests were about having control and that she was struggling with letting go of...

kdt26417 Those are some very good points and definitely got me thinking about it in a different way. Doesn't seem like there can be much compromise but it is worth us having a discussion about what could make it acceptable to her, without veto or going through every conversation. I would love to...

I very much appreciate everyone for trying to break down what I said and offer insight, sometimes hard truths are needed and I appreciate the forwardness and being honest. I have definitely been urging her to do some reading when she feels comfortable so that she can make informed decisions...

I am new to the discovery of this lifestyle, even though I have been in relationships where my actions should have clued me in I just always believed people when they said I was being "greedy" or being judged for my needs or desires. It is my first year of marriage and I chose to have an honest...