Recent content by curiouscat

Hi Kevin, thank you for the kind words! I'm also sorry this is happening! Alas, cannot change it, at least for the moment. My answer to this is that it is not a dealbreaker if it is temporary as he recalibrates his time. The challenging part is, he doesn't really know how long the slow down will...

I appreciate this, Bobbi. You are right. I don't think he had very good personal boundaries at first, and also experienced a pile up of stress, both of which have added up to this slow down. I am struggling with feeling deprioritized as he has set his new boundaries, especially when the whole...

Thank you so much for sharing this story. Pixi is a saint with that level of patience! I agree with your points about respecting a partner's needs and applying patience. Hard for a historically impatient person! The part that is hard is the sort of rollback I've experienced and the lack of...

Thank you for your response! Surprisingly, it's not his nesting partner. She is actually dating several people herself. We've also even met. He is trying to balance a lot (too much probably) and also yes, probably felt a little scared. This would be his first more serious solo "relationship"...

I started seeing someone about 1.5 months ago (we are both married, he is relatively new to dating solo -- he & his partner previously dated together), and it was one of those instant bonds. Things got really comfortable and close very quickly, including sleepovers and just a lot of really deep...

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