Recent content by cuteelephant

Thank you :D

So just to let everyone know what happened... In the end nothing happened. It turns out M. is not interested in me because I am engaged. If I weren't engaged it would probably be a very different story. I am trying to accept that and not be too disappointed and hope that we'll still be...

So we are going for dinner at a casual restaurant and then the plan is to go for a walk along the lake :).

Date with Other Guy late this week Hi all So the other guy and me set a date to meet for later this week. Now I am wondering if you have any good ideas for what to do on the date... The weather is going to be potentially rainy. I could be bold and suggest something like cooking at his...

Hi Kevin Yes, some of your answers are definitely helpful :). I have actually asked the other guy beginning of this week if he wants to meet and he said that he is really busy that week but would get back to me afterward this week. And yes, I guess I'll just have to kind of jump into...

Thank you all very much. I'm glad I've found an option that would be workable and a lot of food for thought as well. I'll keep you posted if anything new develops.

239 Hmmm, the thought of an IUD doesn't really make me feel that comfortable to be honest. I've been having quite some negative effects from the pill and the mini pill and feel much better since I stopped taking any hormonal contraceptive 1.5 years ago. So I'd be very reluctant to go back to...

Clarification Hi again and thank you all for the valuable input. I see that some things I said are causing some misunderstandings as they are formulated sub optimally. 1. I am not trying to get pregnant at all. My fiance and me are using the Pearly to NOT get pregnant (I didn't do welle with...

@Norwegianpoly Thank you for answering :) I am a bit confused though. I am not at all considering going fluent bonded with the other guy... I will always use condoms as I wrote, or did I misunderstand something? @graviton Thank you as well. I am reading a lot of information, but it can also be...

Thank you for your reply :). I've talked about my fiance regarding boundaries, but he wasn't really that interested. I made some suggestions such as I'd only be allowed to see the other guy every two weeks or I'm not going to sleep at his place. My fiance just said he thinks that there isn't a...

Hi everyone I am in need of some advice/experiences/tips/suggestions about the following. Since over three years I am in a loving relationship with my boyfriend. We are engaged and getting married in a year and I've known him for a lot longer than we're dating. Since we started dating I am...