Recent content by Cygnus

As far as changes to my career no. I will most likely be in the military until I retire. Been doing a lot of thinking and I still feel like I'm left out in our relationship. Her and her bf seem so much closer to together than her and I have ever been. I get my wife and I never really shared any...

Also kdt my wife and I do live together but her by recently moved In with us. As I said before I work far from home and only home during the weekends and sometimes I'm gone longer than a week and gone up to months on end. My work is very unpredictable. And has put a damper on our relationship.

Thanks everyone for all your advice. My wife and I are working things out and communicating our needs more effectively. As far as the issue of having her b around we will be getting the space we need to reconnect. It's gonna take a lot of work but we will get back to where we were and improve...

as for the growing up thing trust me ive been handling this in as calm a manner as possible. i grew up and made a life she still clings to her same ideals we had when we were teens. i think thats a part of the problem is that i grew up because of the military and she remained the same.

thank you all so much for the different ideas and advice. for those of you asking yes my wife is bi polar and on medication. I'm gonna talk to her this weekend about it when i'm home from work and see if we can resolve the issues we've had. i still think there is a chance to save our marriage...

I do still love her and it hurts. I may not love her the way she wants me to but I do love her. I would like to resolve things but if we can't resolve it I'm not gonna let our son see us yelling at each other a what not. I'm very scared of getting a divorce I truly don't want one for more than...

The other issue of that is our son. So if theoretically we get a divorce I don't think I'd see my son much at all due to work and the amount I have to work I cannot create a solid base to upbring a child and he is autistic so he requires a bit more attention than your average child. I am not...

Thank you journeyofawakening. I agree with that but she she says that would be unfair to her by and his feelings matter as well. I told her I'm not asking her to break up with him just that he needs to give us some space to rekindle our marriage and work out problems out. She says I am an...

Don't get me wrong I'm not innocent here. I have broken a lot of rules at one time or another none of my offenses were ever major though. I have at my worst kissed someone without her permission. And I have had a history of it. I have apologized but nothing I did would have led to life changing...

so heres my dilemma. my wife and I are a married couple and just recently became a triad. weve been married for nearly 5 years but together for a total of 7. recently there has been loss of connection between me and my wife and we had a falling out this past weekend when i tried to date someone...