Recent content by Dangermouse

Thank you sexyserb, That's really interesting and it's kind of how I feel about everything. I was of the opinion that poly is a sexual orientation and not a choice but it's interesting what you write about going back to mono. Is that what you have done/are doing? How have you found that transition?

Nope, never done it and don't intend to. Maybe I should have written 'easier' option rather than 'easy'. None of this is easy but in my mind the situation is that we have some obstacles (or whatever you want to call it) in our relationship and rather than give up with what we have built over the...

Thanks everyone for your input. I've not come on here for any other reason than to get other people's views and try to become more enlighted, maybe learn something that I haven't already considered. With regards to our mutual friend, there was a miscommunication that night. My wife believed that...

Thankyou. You’re right about working on my own feelings. I’ve tried digging deep, I’ve spent two years trying to understand why I feel so strongly about not being able to accept poly. I believe it’s a sexual orientation and you are either poly or mono, just like you are either gay, straight, bi...

Hi everyone, My wife and I have been discussing poly relationships for the best part of 2 years and after lots of research I believe that she is poly and I am mono. She uses this forum but may or may not want to identify herself as my wife, I’ll leave it up to her to choose. The bottom line is...