Recent content by dante8198

There is some very good advice in this thread. I am very glad I posted up. To your point Snowmelt, it is all very fresh right now. I do think that I will take a step back for a little bit and really try and figure out how I want to approach this. Its definitely something that I feel strongly...

I tried to talk to her about those feelings and it didn't go well. I know that this isn't the best situation for me to be in and I don't feel very good about being in this position, but I am. By my own doing. And its time to change that one way or the other. Thus my post asking for advice. She...

Blunt isn't always a bad thing. Your note about the swinging is dead on. It definitely happened to me. And for the record, I don't think that the grass is greener on the other side. I feel like for me the grass would be greener with the fence knocked down. Believe me, we have had some very...

That would be a compromise for sure. I would say that being able to talk about it and not act on it might still be very hard, but it would be a start.

Guess I opened myself up for that. I should say that other than this issue, things are good with us in my opinion. However since my initial discussion with her, this has been an underlying issue. By "worth fighting for", I mean that I don't want to just tell Kim to pound sand because Sara...

Thanks for the response Galagirl. I am currently reading through your blog too. I answered above. I like how you put this. Take the people and personalities out and see if it still fits. And to answer your final question. Yes I do still feel as strongly about it. I was reading in your blog...

Bear with me, this may be a long one. CLIFFNOTES: 1. Happily married for 10 year. Swingers for 5 of that. 2. Met a single female that I hit it off with and have fallen in love with 3. Still love my wife more and more every day. 4. Discussed the poly lifestyle with my wife. She said no way, I...