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    Help with recognizing my own toxic traits

    I should also point out that the "I'm letting my husband have you" mentality came from his wife at the time, not myself.
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    Help with recognizing my own toxic traits

    Thank you, you've given me some things to think about.
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    Help with recognizing my own toxic traits

    We didn't get married, we got celebration rings as a sign of our committment. He has next to no desire to get married again, and I am honestly at the same point. We had talked about handfasting, but for now that isn't on the table. I don't think I fully have healed, I believe he has come...
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    Help with recognizing my own toxic traits

    Thank you, this was really insightful. I will try to keep this in mind going forward.
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    Help with recognizing my own toxic traits

    To be honest, I came into the poly lifestyle as a part of a toxic hierarchical dynamic where nothing outside of "I'm allowing my husband to have you, don't forget your place" was a common theme. After talking with Meta and my partner about this, I have been given a lot of really good information...
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    Help with recognizing my own toxic traits

    Hi there, I'm fairly new to healthy poly. So, my nesting partner and I didn't start in the healthiest place. We both came from toxic co-dependent places, both abusive marriages, and now we are a lot healthier but I am struggling with her beliefs on how healthy poly should be that he now agrees...
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