We didn't get married, we got celebration rings as a sign of our committment. He has next to no desire to get married again, and I am honestly at the same point. We had talked about handfasting, but for now that isn't on the table.
I don't think I fully have healed, I believe he has come...
To be honest, I came into the poly lifestyle as a part of a toxic hierarchical dynamic where nothing outside of "I'm allowing my husband to have you, don't forget your place" was a common theme. After talking with Meta and my partner about this, I have been given a lot of really good information...
Hi there, I'm fairly new to healthy poly.
So, my nesting partner and I didn't start in the healthiest place. We both came from toxic co-dependent places, both abusive marriages, and now we are a lot healthier but I am struggling with her beliefs on how healthy poly should be that he now agrees...