Recent content by DarthJMM

it does help me keep track of the girls' schedules, so we can plan things, and the three of us text more than call anyway

I know, right? We are so dependent on them today, it's not even funny. M forgot and sent me a text instead of using Messenger, and S has been pretty good about remembering, but she and I tend to use both interchangeably, anyway.

Well, M and I had a decent day, but some annoying things happened. Ok, we're a bit klutzy from time to time (hey, who isn't, right?) but today, geez we were bad. Well, M and I took her dad to an appointment, and M had one after herself, so wedropped her off and her dad and I and M's brother...

Gotta love October. I love the baseball playoffs, though this can be a house divided sometimes. My National League team is the Dodgers, M's team is the Cubs, and S's team is the Giants (sorry, honey, they'll make it next year) Looking like the NLCS will be Dodgers/Cubs, and boy, me and M get...

Thanks. I wasn't sure about dipping back into the poly pool with what happened before, but I gave it a shot with S (my lady) and we talked for quite a while before going out. Thank goodness it was successful. She's an amazing woman, it ducks that her work schedule is wonky because it makes it...

It went very well. She is now officially my girlfriend. She is very physically affectionate and I'm the type who loves that. Wife is very happy that she and I are official now and that the date went well. She got really into the game, so we had a great time. Lots of affection

Thanks, we shall. She's the cutest and sexiest 54 year old grandma I know. Sadly, she supports the Giants and I go for the Dodgers, but my wife is a Cubs fan, so I think it'll be ok :D

Well, after the total disaster that my last relationship ended up being, I have been cultivating a relationship with a new lady over the last few weeks. Tonight is our first date and I have been looking forward to it since we planned it. My beautiful wife is happy that I found another lady to...

Well, well, well, the lie train just keeps on going. After talking to Hannah tonight, she told me that Mel and Sam are fine and nothing changed. Apparently, she managed to convince him that I made it all up. Holy hell, that did it with me. If he wants to believe her bullshit, then so be it...

The hell of it is, I think I understand in a way. Mel had said before "I want what you and Rene have." Looking back, it sounds more like she wanted the marriage that Rene and I have, but that due to polygamy laws, I can't give Mel (I would have married her in a heartbeat) but also the poly...

Thank you. I told Sam that he can call or text me any time. I will support him with whatever he chooses.

Yeah, the pain of it was that apparently the entire time Mel and I were together, she and Sam were too. One thing when just dating, but still, you don't lie to your partners. But the second they got engaged or were thinking about it, she should have told me so I could back off to just friends...

Ok, guys, thanks for the advice. I decided to tell Sam (Mel's husband) the truth. He took it as well as can be expected. (at least he didn't hit me or yell at me) I felt horrible and constantly apologized and said but I think you need to know the truth. Turned out, she was lying to both of...

For me it depends. With my now ex, I can't totally cut her out as I have a father/daughter relationship with her eldest who is currently at college. So, I plan to be at least civil to her and her husband. (she lied to me about being married and we were physically intimate after they were...

thanks, assets, that helps. It mirrors what Rene said last night. I will attend her senior concert (she's in orchestra) and graduation. I won't sit near Mel and her husband, but I promised I will be civil to them. I already promised Hannah that no matter what, I will be there for her.