Recent content by DazedAndDapper

At the moment it's come as sort of a shock, I'm still friends with the secondary, for now just taking it a day at a time with my wife.....hearing her (my wife) being ok with chucking the person away at the end of things didn't really sit well with me. Not to mention they were both intimate...

After a long journey, am left dazed and confused..... The end result has been that she has told me to date women but that she doesn't want to be part of it...we met (as mentioned before) a very nice and patient woman who has been super supportive. They shared an intimate moment and right after...

It's amazing to see how insightful and helpful you guys have been At the moment we are taking baby steps as the biggest hangup for my wife has been her jealousy on a emotional level because she has expressed being okay with our third person caring and loving for her it's more so the third...

Going into the relationship I did express my love for poly and multiple partners to which she expressed joy more so for threesomes (sexually not emotionally) to which I asked we revisit the issue again. She's made out with women in front of me etc so the physical portion is far from an issue...

Hi man you're absolutely right, at the moment I'm trying to keep my love like your signature suggests..meat clever free lol Thanks for the reply

What an awesome thread, especially for those going through a mixed relationship (us poly and them mono)

What a tangled web i weave.....I fully understand that you're right, especially the nsa threesome idea because that's what she wants, while I know most men would jump at the chance of his wife wanting threesomes it's rather devastating being left with the ultimatum of having it her way or none...

Yes Its been a constant thought process for me, i think more than anything the fact that she's adamant on nsa threesomes kind of left things in my court but again nsa really hasn't worked from experience ok my behalf. It can be a bit difficult to see her want to engage with women on a sexual...

First and foremost, I don't know what took me so long to join this forum, reading through the threads and comments the expressive and in tune with ones feelings etc that resonates is awesome in all aspects. While I understand my situation is one that's happened to many here it's always...

As a newbie reading this hit home, I've tried explaining to my now wife my feelings and how much this means to me only to be hit with that she's not sharing.