Recent content by DeaCar

Thank you all for giving me much insight and possible ideas to put into action. I can't move right now but definitely will be able in a few years and that would help and make a difference, including finding others since it is a more liberal city. Getting more involved with hobbies etc sounds...

Thank you all much!

I think he and I are an anomaly. This has been going on for many many years and when we see each other it's like we've never parted. I've never experienced this with anyone else and seems like a relationship that is worth fighting for. Being on here, getting heard and supported seems to be...

I took a love languages quiz and found out I'm both (the same high number), Quality Time and Words of Affirmation. Maybe this is why we have been able to withstand distance for many years.

I don't know my love language, other than I'm a natural giver. We've had a LDR for years on and off and it's always been hard for me because I love him so much. I long for him. And now that we've made plans to live together, in a few years with another of his lovers after his child is grown...

How do I adapt to having Old Relationship Energy with my long time love that I've had an on and off relationship with for many years? I believe he feels that more than I do, I still feel both New and Old energy equally. He spends more regular time with other newer lovers because they live close...