Recent content by decidedonlove

Definitely! We've been seeing a therapist for a while now, but I don't particularly value his perspective in this area. He believes trans people to be mentally ill, which demonstrates some key disagreements between us. I have found a poly friendly therapist who I'm planning to see Monday, but...

Thank you for the information! Yeah, we're trying. He's vacillating back and forth between "You don't want to be married to me because you don't want what I want." and "Let's fix our marriage and then we'll revisit it." It's confusing, emotionally difficult, and it's causing a lot of drama...

Hi all! Obviously I'm new here and figured the best place to start would be to introduce myself. I'm a poly girl in a mono marriage. My husband and I have tried an extra marital relationship in the past, but it ended when the other guy said he wanted to be in a relationship with me and not me...