Recent content by Dede

Dear all, I have evolved a bit in my process to making up my mind if and how I can give a 'green light' to my wife who wants to start a relationship with another guy, practically forming a 'V'. I would appreciate some hands-on feedback/testimonials from those of you who have been faced with a...

similar situation Hi Mangogirl, I'm in a broadly similar situation: 4 weeks ago my wife asked me if I could live with her 'becoming poly' since she fell in love with another man. She does not want to cheat, she does not see this would-be relationship as any competition to ours, she told me...

Some clarifications Dear all, Many thanks for your views and tips already! To clarify and react to a few points raised: I honestly believe my wife talked openly to me from the first moment she felt that this is something ‚serious‘. We also had honest conversations throughout our marriage...

Hi there, I‘m new on this forum and the reason is that I am faced with a major change in my 20+ years happy marriage with my wife (42; I m 43). We have four wonderful kids together between 5 and 16 years old. A few weeks ago she came to me telling me she has fallen in love for a distant...

Hi scarecrow, I agree with the views and reflexions of River. I‘m in a broadly similar situation to you except that my wife would accept my having other relationships. If you come across good ways to deal with your jealousy I‘d be very interested, this is currently THE obstacle to give a...