Recent content by Degeneratelove

To clarify the context of those statements, they were made in a much longer conversation about the future of our relationship. He brought it up, and wanted to be honest with how he is feeling now. He's really struggling with the thought of being alone when I'm with someone else. He's willing to...

"I'm trying to think of how someone's emotional investment being scaled back hurts the other party or only really hurts the one scaling it back. Are you offended or hurt by that notion ? If so why ?" We discussed it more a few days ago and he made it clear that he is fairly certain...

I have just started dating a man who is monogamous. While he understands poly and says he accepts me how I am, he also has made comments that I feel are slightly...confrontational? Such as, "Well I know I shouldn't emotionally invest in you too much." and, "You're all I need, but I guess I'm not...

Thanks I just wasn't sure if this was something you could be/should be immediately sure of. I know theres not an objective answer, but thank you I feel more comfident in this realization. I'm extremely excited to explore, and this online forum is just incredible. And i can definitely agree...

Hello, I am not new to the idea of polyamory. I've known about it generally and known several people who practice it singularly for 4/5 years. I personally never saw it as an option until recently. I've entered a relationship with a man who is poly and so I really started researching and...