Recent content by der_bayer4

So far so good, but very little communication from the other male member of the possible Vee. What can we do to encourage more communication from his side. So far he usually says "we can talk more when I moved there", and he seems to resist any kind of possible discussions on boundaries or such...

Hi Magdlyn, Thanks for the reminder. Using Jack and Daisy will be good.

Hello Kevin, Thanks for your thoughts, as we are trying to figure things out together here. For the kids, we have decided, for starters, not to tell them, but we think if it's more than one time a week, they will notice. We will have to think about that. Also for me, in the past, it has been...

Hi MeeraReed, Thanks for your insights. Yes, many things are up in the air. Daisy has realised she is poly and I am supportive of this all the way. Jack wants to exclusively date her. This is why he will move closer now. In the past, he had a large (well, it depends on who you ask, I guess)...

Hi Bobbi, He and I are both straight. Dates will be strictly between her and him, and her and me, and sometimes the 3 of us. Sexually, we are taking it slow and letting him decide what he wants. We are okay with him joining, but it's all around pleasuring her, which in turn brings us pleasure...

Thanks for your reply and good advice. Yes, my wife feels the same way as you described about his marriage. She said that it's important that he is married, and that at no point, did or would she tell him to leave his wife. But of course, at the same time, she would like him on a closer...

Hi, We are a couple (M58/F39), together for 18 years now. We have 2 girls, 12 and 14 years old. We have tried some swinging, but found it did not work for us. Then my wife had 1-2 sexual relations, and with one of them she connected, over the years, online. Recently they met again in person...