Recent content by dgmon174

I'm conflicted inside and will be going to therapy Veracity of her story aside I believe my best option is to remove myself from this situation entirely. I explained on an earlier post that she revealed it wasn't a one time thing. The incident in question is the worst she remembers but there...

UPDATE: I don't know how to update the post so I am adding this comment. Obviously I'm ill-equipped to deal with this situation and my emotions are getting in the way of my rationality. I spent a lot of time going over everyone's comments, and did some online research on the subjects of rape...

Thanks Everyone I want to thank you all for your responses. We are currently not discussing this because we are going through something much more difficult. http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=105284 Thank you all for your input.

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Just did. She's not willing to do this. I think it's over.

Ok now I'm about to lose it. What is making the situation even worse is that I'm currently away from my GF and all our communication is happening via phone. Last night she told me she would be hanging out with her friend and I agreed because I didn't want her to be alone in this situation. (This...

I am angry with Jimmy and also want to hear his side of the story. Part of me is secretly afraid that his side will be that it was consensual. As far as I know, he is aware of the cheating accusations but not about the sexual assault being disclosed. I believe the reason I feel betrayed is...

I asked her this. I did ask her if she felt guilty and she assured me that she never doubted that this was his fault and not hers. She claimed that she has hated him ever since this happened, but you would never know. They seemed to get along pretty well to me in the months that I have known...

I have been dating my girlfriend for several months now. We are really close do a lot together, and know each other's friends. Some of these friends, a couple(Let's call them jimmy and Nancy) I particularly liked. We went on trips and double dates together and both couples always hit it off...

Transitioning ? "Transitioning back to mono and saving my marriage" Do you mind sharing? Was it a similar situation to mine?

Hi all, Really happy to find this site. Hopefully I can connect with some of you and continue to learn about myself. About me: 29 yr old cis male that grew up in a relatively traditional household. Through a former girlfriend, I discovered the world of kink and BDSM and oh boy. I have now...