Recent content by Dimensionless

After some Googling, I see what you all are saying about codependency. I depend on her for my happiness, and I care about nothing else in life. However she feels about me IS my identity. This is why I cannot bear to leave her... But how to extricate myself from this trap? She read the "Poly...

In summary, I'm going to ride the storm as long as I can, and discuss my needs with my SO, and focus on myself. This situation is still new and evolving, so I suspect (and hope) there will be a clear sign, event, or resolution, which will indicate for me finally what the future holds. Either the...

This forum is amazing. I didn't even hope for the amount and quality of these responses, which are the most helpful and insightful that I've come across since this poly situation began for me. While my "friends" and co-workers basically scoff and ridicule, and my girlfriend is just as bewildered...

...and she doesn't usually notice. We've lived together blissfully for 3 years, although we've become less passionate and sexual in the past year or so. She claims to be polyamorous, and she met someone new about a month ago, and they have explosive chemistry. I bought a camper van to sleep...