Recent content by disillusioned

Sometimes I wish I could hold both of them in the same time, one in each hand, and shoot off all day long, with both....:p

I'm a poly DSLR person myself.... (I have both Canon 5D and Nikon D90 ("poly") most people go with one or the other.... I wish Canon and Nikon people could be friends but, you know how it is... human nature)

Hi, 1) Establish an association of all the "poly" "open" "swing" etc organizations / clubs - something like "World Federation of Non-Monogamous ... something" 2) Collect the contact information, address etc for each and every club / organization on the planet. 3) Put these addresses on a...

Yea that was plane stupid of me... :-) That school is called "too much TV"

First we need to agree about what we are promoting exactly... I suggest we look at it not as promoting "poly" or any other specific type of relationship, but rather promoting the general idea that monogamy is WRONG, just kidding... promoting the idea that monogamy should not be considered the...

girls = nigger? Wow... is there a list of not PC words that I should read? I just want to say that this discussion that I had with myself really helped me conceptualize a lot on this topic. Thanks :-) Also, I read Penny's introduction post as I said, and I told myself what a nice/wild/...

You know, there is another thing I don't get about monogamism ... from what I understand about American calture, during college and High School, people "go out" "not exclusive" with each other... in other words, its perfectly fine then to "bang" with a few people in the same time and its totally...

Wow Penny, I just read your story... thats so wild. Was the reason you wanted to open up the relationship sexual? Because I can imagine a story where a married woman meets someone, falls in love with him, but then doesn't want to leave the husband and the whole thing comes up... but here it...

I dig. Good word and post (no joke) But here is one : I suggest a new word - Orgamism, for people who object the practice of self indulgence. Either Orgamism or Orgasmism :-)

I'm sorry, I don't get it. I didn't want to write "happay women's day to all women" because it doesn't sound right, so I used "girls". Is that word used only for young females? Was it wrong of me? Should I apologize AGAIN? The IWD is big in Europe, in some countries its a national holiday. By...

Wow. That wasn't nice, was it. I'm starting my own forum, I'll post the URL tomorrow. And it was for postgraduate.

Sorry, I had to change the answer to this. Give me a break. We started with "everybody is different" went on to "mono/poly/gay are different choices", and ended up with the fact that people have no free will. I'm sorry that you did not benefit from this thread. I hope that someone else did...

GREAT! Exactly! But this is where you don't "get it", that's the last piece of the puzzle: When you are presented with one option, you become a robot, if you want it or not. Monogamy is not presented as a "possibility", one of many. It is presented as the "default". As YOU said it - THE ONLY...

Great, more progress! Can you share what your therapists did advise you? By the way, maybe if they would... your relationships would become better? Now knowing what you know, what do you feel they should have told you?