Recent content by Dolly

Just caught that I posted MFM instead of FMF--Freudian? LOL! Thanks for catching that, ThatGirl. It is me, hubby and Mona, plus our kids. We are closed for the moment (polygamous). Not looking to add, but we weren't looking when we met Mona, so you never know...we are open to whatever life...

Contest is over. Kay Milano was the winner of the signed copy of "Mr. And Mrs. and Mrs. West". Thanks! ~Dolly

I have a hard time with labels as well. It is up to each person to define themselves. I just say I am a sexual being, and my attractions are dependent on many factors. For example, let's say there are identical twin females sitting at a table in a restaurant I just happen to be eating at as...

I'm new to the board as well. Looking forward to getting to know you better! ~Dolly

aaahhhhhhh, gotcha! Thanks for the clarification. :)

Any relationship worth having takes work, adjustment, and open communication. We all have routines, whether we are aware of them or not. When our routines get disturbed, it is sometimes uncomfortable. I think I may be more like your girlfriend--I need to process before I can talk things out. It...

The freedom to explore our needs as individuals is primary in any relationship. At least you are now connecting with those inner needs. This seems to be a safe, informative place to ask questions and make new friends--I am new here myself. Good luck! ~Dolly

Nice to meet you. So sorry to hear about the loss of your fur baby. Always so hard--they are family, too! What is fire spinning? I have never heard of that. Just curious. Sounds like you have a wonderful, loving network in your polycule. Awesome! My sisterwife and husband are into BDSM. I...

Hi Kitkat! Love is awesome, isn't it? I am glad that you are getting a change to experience the bigger love of poly. Poly on! ~Dolly

Welcome! This forum seems to have people from all over the world, from all different backgrounds. I love that! Diversity is so awesome! ~Dolly

Hello! I am new here as well, though I admit, I have been a lurker for a long time. My family has been poly for over two years now, and we are perpetually busy. Our oldest is a college grad and engaged; our oldest daughter is in culinary school in Europe; we have one daughter in junior high...

Thought I would post a quick intro. My name is Dolly, and I am in a poly MFM triad. Hubby and I have been married for 23 years and had three children before entering the relationship with our partner, Mona. In the two years we have been together, we have grown our family by three more children...

I am hosting a contest on my Facebook page for a signed copy of my new book! Search for Delilah West and answer the following question on the contest post: "What is your favorite season?" Winners will be randomly selected on October 1st. Winner will be contacted via Facebook. If you are not a...

Pretty self-serving, but I just published a novel called "Mr. and Mrs. and Mrs. West: A Love Story" which is a secular poly novel.

This is a tough question. I have to go with my own experiences to answer this one. I fell in love with, and married, an undiagnosed bipolar. It was hell for the first several years (pre-diagnosis and treatment), as I did not know how to help him. Bottom line was, I loved him, so I stuck by him...