Recent content by DonaldsonBry

Thank you Lunabunny, I think you summed it up very well. Since posting and reading posts, I’ve been keeping open communication and talking more about what kind of relationship will we have and less about an «*open marriage*». I don’t know how it will all go but I hopefully better

Sorry for the confusion Opalescent, you are right. I didn’t mean to lower the options down to two. Those are some very good options.

So I know it isn’t your job Galagirl but if you can take the time I would appreciate it. At some point,my wife and I were discussing what to do with our future. The options at the time were seperation or looking at an open marriage is the two options that we both agreed were on the table. She...

Thank you everyone for your responses, it has given me a lot to think about and really re-framed this for me in a positive way. Thank you Galagirl, I definitely asked for another therapist or referral. My hope is to find another sex positive therapist. My wife at this time does not want to see...

Thank you all for your responses, it helps to hear some advice and that people have gone through it before. I will definitely keep in mind the emotionally checking in piece and continue with that. I don't necessarily see the marriage as broken before all of this, we had a major deficit in the...

So, she is for all intents and purposes, asexual. You aren't. This mismatch causes tension. Yes and No, she tells me she has a high sex drive, sometimes she flip flops between not being attracted to me (as per her) and sometimes she isn't interested in anyone else. I was hoping that going...

Hello, I am new to the forum and new to open marriages. I’ve read some books, wrote out an agreement, went over it with the mrs. I was wondering if anyone had any tips or suggestions on how to empower and support the mrs. through this. She does not want me to touch her, she is quite angry a lot...