Recent content by DrewandLyn

The scenes in bed are short- just a few seconds of footage and no sex- just sleeping- until the alarm clock goes off or someone gets a phone call- that sort of thing, very mundane, but still ineresting to see on TV. As for sharing a big bed in real life... I love it. Of course, it's not for...

Hey, thanks for the reco! I will check it out... I'm just winding down on a 10 book series and I'm about due for a trip to the library. :) My wife and I were big fans of the new Battlestar Galactica. We both could not get enough of Starbuck... mmm. So we were very skeptical of Caprica- did...

Excellent! Bon Chance! We did meet one couple through a swinger site that was a very positive experience... It just didn't work out long term. But the vibe from the over-whelming swinger majority, just sapped our energy from trying to find the polyamorous needles in the haystack. ;)

On the plus side, one does not have to make very many connections to have a great poly circle and, as with all things, success breeds success. There are literally thousands of swingers with online profiles in our area- but out of those thousands- maybe less than a dozen polyamorous- a lot of...

idealist- thanks for taking the time to post and thanks for the suggestion. :) We've tried the "couples looking for couples" online dating thing a little. We have just found it a little too difficult. Too difficult to wade through the swingers to find the polyamorous. Also we are both...

Cheers right back at ya!!! As for both having our own profile... Probably a good idea- just hadn't thought that far ahead. :o

Any Sci-Fi fans out there... Edit- (It just occurred to me that, even though this is a minor plot point, some might consider this post a spoiler... I apologize for not adding this disclaimer sooner. If you just hate spoilers, no matter how minor, and have plans to watch "Caprica," don't read...

I think we are more or less done with the swinger world. Our plan now is to slowly and gently come out as poly to our friends and the people we care about, and be playful and flirtatious, and take the time to see if new relationships develop organically. Sometimes that seems like a tall order...

We're a poly married couple (M/F). We both knew for many years that monogamy was, at the very least, not very important to us. Lyn (not our real names, btw- so unfortunate to have use a pseudonym- we wish, I'm sure like many here, we could just be out, and ourselves, without worry of judgment...