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Thank you both. I have taken the suggestions and used them. The conversation was calm. He said the same things again, that they are not together, they are done. He also said I got rid of her because you wanted me to and when you bring it up it hurts. I will be trying to put my trust in him...

How do I confront my husband about a woman he swears he isn't with/seeing/etc? She has been awful to me, is not really great to him, and has been trying to come between us for months. I have expressed my concerns and how I feel. I has said he understands and has broken up with her several times...

GalaGirl: Yes a good deal of my frustration at our argument last night is that I did not take a beat and process before reacting. I feel I have been doing really well with that and last night was a big fail. I did speak to him about scheduling a specific time to discuss scheduling with him. We...

GalaGirl: Yes you have understood what I am wanting. A healthy marriage, exploring poly in an appropriate way, I am not interested in having a polyship involving the cheating affair person. I DO in fact have me being healthy and happy as a part of my list as well. I have been trying to figure...

GalaGirl: I just finished looking through/reading the links that you shared with me. THANK YOU! They were so very helpful and I think I will share them with my husband as well. Reflections: I was asked if I would try to get to know her and possibly become friends with her by my husband. I know...

You have given me many things to look at, I appreciate that greatly! He has apologized, I forgave, and I asked for them to step back and let me process and figure out what I needed. They said they would, that lasted a week. Again they snuck around etc. I confronted it, said how I felt about it...

I am new here and new to poly so please forgive me if this is awkward. I have been married 4 years and with my husband 7 total. About 5 months ago my husband met a woman who he started hanging out with and texting (very frequently). He and I had communication issues that led to this but we know...