Recent content by Dstone

Its been a while ... Well, November, December, Jan, Feb, and now March, since posting here. I am home full-time with ZF now, and it has made her a very happy person. BB is now driving full time with her son, and she says that she really enjoys driving with him because he apparently gets less...

If he is mono, and you encourage him finding a GF, that's one thing, but what if he falls in love with that GF and decides he wants her to move in as poly?,...I know this is not your situation, but my past is similar,...I was not sexually compatible with my ex, never had sex after the first...

That's fantastic that you guys could work through this in a positive way,...It sounds like, as well, that his head is screwed on straight toward your feelings and needs. These days, that seems to be rare among mono couples. Good luck with your adventures in life and love....Dstone

Their home origin is in Northern Europe. I travelled worldwide, as a technical professional, and had visited that country many times, but ironically, met BB in the USA, while she was here visiting. We hit it off very well with each other, and fell in love, but nonetheless, I sent her back to her...

I think you have some serious issues. You are trying to justify your distaste of our poly relationship (me in particular), by trying to read into it as if someone were being abused and/or manipulated. If that's what you think, then you are indeed one sick, closed-minded individual, indeed. You...

Yup, its pretty serious. It didn't help this poor guy. http://www.supremecourt.ohio.gov/SCO/justices/pfeifer/column/2007/jp042507.asp It was even pleaded unconstitutional, at one point, where "Lowe argued that the statute was unconstitutional as applied to his case because the government has...

Thank you for your input on this. I can see your point. However, I like very much where we live, and own my home. It is very close to a major city, yet we have lots of acreage, and are own private woods. I love nature, and the chunk of land we have is our mini paradise among the hustle of...

I really like BigGuy's post,...very well put. On the 'Am I not Enough' part,..well, I posted an answer to someone else a few minutes ago. here is what I said,... http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showpost.php?p=244773&postcount=3 maybe a new perspective.

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One thing, I think, that might help you, would be to try and figure out who is really hurting here, and for what actual reasons. Perhaps you could post the top 3 reasons why you are hurt by his desires on here. Then, list the top 3 reasons you think he is wanting to seek a poly lifestyle...

perhaps you should 'test the waters' a bit,...Set yourself up with a date with a guy (even if its fake),...go out for the evening,...check yourself into a motel, and not come back till the next mid day...See if he is truly ready to trust you going out with other men. If he has hangups about it...

Maybe we need to do that more often then, and it would be a nice change. Go outside our community, like on a cruise, perhaps, where no one knows us as a three, setting ourselves up as such. We have done this before, but it has been a long while. Yes, we are very lucky to be so happy together...

aww,...thats just sad,...I had a GF this happened to years ago,...We have always been saddened by it.

I cannot be open about our poly-fidelitous V life with anyone who directly knows us without risking being on the 5-o'clock news, labeled a terrible monster, while being carted off to jail. Not even many of the open-minded folks understand that a man can fall in love with a woman and her adult...

Stop and Go... So we stopped for a night and day. BB and I got to spend a bit of time cuddling, making love 2 times within a few hours, passing out, more cuddling, then out to breakfast, hanging out. Off again we go, from coast to coast this time, back through the dangerous winds, but we are...