Recent content by eggishmage

I've actually wondered, and she has too, if she's not bi polar or something like that. It's messed, and it's quite clear to me now that we do need to slow things down. I'm going to talk to her tonight, it's not going to be an easy discussion, but I'm going to try and calmly present these things...

She wants to sit and listen to my concerns, but her reaction to it is usually pretty overblown and overdramatic. We had an issue a while back, about her seeing this person again, and I aired how I felt, looking for some common ground on how to address it and deal with my specific concerns and...

She does definitely have an air of uncertainty about herself. She's a lot more confident about herself now than she was when we met, but I wonder sometimes if it's enough. I have to admit, in a lot of ways I actually think I'm more ready for this than she is. She really is coming from a 'live in...

It wasn't like she was really hiding that something was wrong, it was pretty obvious to me that she was completely distraught and was trying to work up the nerve to talk to me about something. I basically just started the conversation that something was wrong, I can tell, what is it? She spilled...

OK, so here's the sitch. I've been in a committed relationship with my fiancee for 7 years. We have two kids together, shared responsibilities and all that real life stuff. We rely on each other financially and for emotional support. Long story short, there has been some distance between us the...