Recent content by Eleanor

I am a big fan of the book Sex at Dawn, and also use it in my show. (which I am going to link to now, because, damn it, it's about polyamory! http://tinyurl.com/LUSTANDMARRIAGE) For me, learning the scientific basis of the desire to have more than one sexual partner helped me feel a lot better...

It's true! Portland is pretty awesome, and has been extremely supportive of my theater company, Dance Naked Productions. I feel really blessed to live in such an open-minded place. I'm currently performing a solo show about polyamory called Lust & Marriage (I did a run here in Portland and...

thanks Kevin and Debbie - I'm delighted to be so warmly welcomed. As for who would be who in a Portland/Seattle poly smackdown, I have no idea. Seattle has the Center for Sex Positive Culture, which is pretty awesome. But we've got Sex-Positive Portland, which is growing. I feel very...

but in terms of how we are treated I do find a lot of parallels. For example, my lesbian sister has a trans boyfriend, and my parents fall all over themselves to welcome him into the family. I have been told that they are not interested in meeting my boyfriend, as I have a husband already...

There is an interesting article in Slate about why happy couples cheat, with some input by the esteemed Esther Perrel (who is coming out with a new book!) I would love to post the link but I got burned from posting links being a newbie so I'll just say it's great, and if you are interested...

Are you looking for people in the UK or world-wide? I'm in Portland, OR, but I've got friends in the UK. I'm curious what the scope of the article would be as well.

thanks for your share I'm brand new to this forum, so still pretty excited to see people sharing experiences I often feel alone in having. I just want to say how much I appreciate your openness, and courage. I imagine it's not easy to be a bisexual male in a poly relationship - you are...

Hey all - I'm from Portland, OR, and am delighted to find this site. My husband and I have been in an open relationship for 8 years (married for 3) and poly for the last few. (I make the distinction between open and poly being that for many years I didn't want him to "fall in love"). I've...