I don't think living up to his promises and responsibilities is too much to ask. Neither does anyone else here so far.
And up until a month or so ago he was.
You sound like you have a mighty big chip on your shoulder, and your opinion isn't helpful at all. It sounds like your advice boils...
I don't know what's going on with him lately. We've been open for 3+ years and now all of a sudden things are blowing up.
It's like Spring is in the air and he can't stop thinking with his d*ck.
Background - I'm mono, Mr is poly(ish). We opened our relationship a few years ago so he could meet new people and play. I wasn't thrilled with the idea but I've gotten through it and things have been good.
My only rules were..
1) Family First (we have kids)
2) use protection (we're fluid...