Recent content by Emm

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Yes, he was. I'll fix that now. Thanks for bringing it to my attention.

It's probably one of the most common configurations, and (anecdotally) almost certainly the most stable.

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There should be a Report button at the top right of the PM. That will give the mod team a link to both the spam and the spammer so we can find the right account and see what they're sending.

Mike from New York with the username Barry appears also to be Peter from the UK who is posting spam-like non-sequiturs from an IP address which claimed to be in Michigan. His lack of reply to your welcome is due to his being banned.

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If I know I'm going to have company and it's been more than a couple of days since I last changed the sheets I'll change them again even if it's only me who's been sleeping in them.

I hadn't considered equipment failure as a contributing factor.

One of the photos was captioned with "So I literally broke a cane on (playpartner)'s butt." The cane in question looked almost as thick as my thumb. I don't think that's been more than a passing thought, but I'll keep an eye out for it. Thanks for the suggestion

Pretty much. I enjoy the ropework and would like to be comfortable doing it again sooner rather than later. Tickling isn't an issue in itself; it just happened to be what contributed to me overthinking it all in this particular case. We usually only get to spend time together in person every...

That's the plan for now. The discussion we had when I brought it up was reassuring. He thanked me for raising the issue, acknowledged what I said, apologised, explained how it had looked from his side and how he'd misunderstood the situation (without coming across as an attempt to justify...

Although it makes no difference in a safeword context, he's a proponent of RACK rather than SSC, due in part to his own issues with the use of the word "safe" when talking about deliberately inflicting pain and/or injury. He’s always been very careful about enthusiastic consent, and was appalled...

Thank you all for your advice and opinions; it's helping me organise my thoughts. I'll expand on some things and answer questions when I'm not replying on a phone, but I want to clarify that what I actually said during the tickling incident was more along the lines of "please don't do that"...

He'd mentioned months ago that his play partner likes to be marked, and we'd discussed how much trouble he'd had reconciling his discovery that he enjoys that type of activity with his self identity as a big cuddly teddy bear type who wouldn't hurt a fly. Intellectually I knew it was going on...