Recent content by Eudora

Thanks, again, Gala & Anne. Your advice is really, really helpful. Hopefully I will have some awesome update soon.

So much gratitude, a few more questions First, Thanks to everyone who replied and to Galagirl and Anneintherain and to anyone who sent positivity my way because I feel it. Thank you. The WORRY. My god, the Worry. I think I wrote all this to exorcize that worry. Things are actually going well...

Also, Jane, I'm curious about MR. S-- does he have any lovers? How has his lower sex drive and "probably mono" status affected his desire for other relationships?

This is so helpful and I appreciate it so much, Jane. It's so helpful to know someone has tread over this ground before. Couple things: I guess I should have clarified that we didn't feel like the relationship was broken so we needed to add more people. A majority of the relationship was...

OH, honey. First of all, you seem like you're handling this really well. I mean, I haven't been there for your discussions, but in your writing I see a gentleness and a bravery. It seems to me that your husband went a little berserk on testing boundaries, that he might be one of those people...

After 6 months of opening up my relationship with my partner, listening to Dan Savage podcasts over and over and probably irritating the hell out of my close friends by asking for advice over and over, here I am, wanting to give support to others as a way of supporting myself. Here's the...

I relate to this so strongly. What I would say is get on OKcupid and be really upfront on your profile that you don't just want to have sex, but also form a friendship. Some people are afraid of letting that space open up, of letting themselves be vulnerable through a friendship, but you'll...

re: fear It might be helpful to remember that poly relationships can be super intimidating and triggering from the other side. If Sally asked you from the get-go "where is this going?" she may have been dealing with feelings for you long before you asked her out. To be asked out by you while...

Can we stop ourselves from falling in love? Fell in love with a man for the first time at 26. We're very compatible & supportive. Let's call him R. Long story: A little more than a year ago I met a man who really excited me. We binged on each other for a week and by the end of that week I...