Recent content by EventuallyFatal

Well, I know most of you think the relationship has no hope...but the decision is that he is to cut off most contact with Alice. He still wants to remain friends, but I'm only comfortable with it through texting/phone calls (with absolutely no flirting) or if I'm present while they're hanging...

Yes, he did tell me that he wants a break...but I don't have the mentality right now to accept living with him, still loving him, and seeing him go off to be with another woman. We've had a lot of conversations about our relationship since this has come to light. He said he is sometimes scared...

I see what you're saying and I know you're probably right. I'm just not willing to completely give up on us yet. He's my son's father, my only child, and I want nothing more in the whole world than for us to be together and happy. He's the longest relationship I've ever had and we get along...

I definitely agree that one of the most hurtful things about all of this is the type of person he's "fallen" for. Another thing is that what made him finally be honest is her almost dying, not my begging for weeks for it. But now that he's finally ready to be 100% honest NO MATTER WHAT (his own...

I'm not really in any sort of open relationship, but when I posted this on another relationship forum I only got the answer that "He doesn't really love you if he loves another at the same time, leave him!" over and over. I just wanted some open minded advice about what I should do to help my...