Recent content by FelicityB

How much privacy should a secondary partner expect with regards to email, texting, etc? Should a primary partner be allowed to insist on complete transparency of your other partners correspondence?

Let me clarify some things -- my husband has NO idea the depth of my feelings for M. He knows M but does not associate with him. When I am with A , I am with A, not texting or talking to M, (except for the occasional hello/goodnight), and while I have told him I feel love for M, I have never...

I absolutely DO love my husband. My love with M is different and something my relationship with A was missing. But that does not mean I no longer want A. He fulfills these needs, M fulfills others. Thats all. I have been going to counseling on my own. I've asked A to go on his own and then...

We honestly never discussed having veto power. I would never veto anything he wanted to do unless I felt it was harmful to him. I support him fully with whomever he wants to see and I assumed he would do the same for me. I agree that his desire to tell me when or if I can see M ---or cause a...

Hello, Avoidant! First, I'm very sorry you are struggling with all of this. **hugs** So I have this straight: you opened your marriage, you had an occasional date while hubby was away, hubby found someone he clicked with (did he casually date before the GF?), and now you feel unhappy and...

AzpolyT8R, Hello! You say you recently started in poly. Whose idea was it? I agree with ElMango-- sounds like she wanted to be poly but when she didn't find anyone and you did, she became jealous and now wants out. Yeah, not cool. Im truly sorry she is struggling but they are HER...

Hello, everyone. My husband A and I have been married for nearly 20 years.We were 18 when we got married. A few years ago, we opened our marriage. Our marriage was solid and we simply wanted to experience other relationships since we had married so young. We each have casually dated others...