Recent content by ferenc

Thank you all for your comments-- all good food for thought. Thank you again, JaneQ. I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s not ego. I know I can’t be everything for everyone. As far as cultural conditioning goes, I’ve always broken the rules and am totally comfortable with that. So I started...

After years of discussion, we've finally taken the plunge into poly. My wife has fallen deeply in love with another man, and I’m pretty ok with that, so long as my relationship needs are being fulfilled. They kinda are. But being in NRE, my wife still sometimes/often thinks about him when she's...

Marcus, Thank-you for validating my feelings... I have spoken to my wife about this as we always talk about everything so we can get to the bottom of why we're experiencing these feelings. Like me, she's sad that I'm taking a negative from the experience and unable to just revel in the beauty...

Why do I feel resentful that my wife is more present, loving and appreciative of me after she sees her boyfriend? A little background, we've been together 11 years and still love each other. We've had a tough past 5 years and it turns out we don't deal with stress too well, and we've been...