Recent content by Feria

Well, I found out from him that his wife wants to get remarried and wants only monogamy with him. So he is ending his relationship with me and will no longer be poly. He said he has a special connection with me and wants to remain friends. He is going to suppress his feelings for me. He only...

Many people have said the same thing about BPD. I don't know. Whatever it is, I somehow provoke this. I get upset because I don't understand it. I think it's time I just let him go because I love him too much to let this continue. All I want is for him to find peace and happiness. That's not...

I don't know. I haven't heard from him at all since this last breakup. Apparently he has nothing else to say to me. I do know for a fact he has withdrawn from other relationships when he is in a emotional crisis. He loved another years ago before I came along. He just stopped talking to her...

Yes. It was hot and cold, push me away, come back here. Any ounce of attention I got made me hang on. It was not always like that. I am still confused over what happened. Maybe I was too naive, too easy, and enjoyed the chase. Maybe it's some deep-seated issue implanted in my brain that this...

Maybe I was wrong in writing him a love letter. Maybe I pressured him by saying how deeply I loved him and that I missed seeing him. I was trying to poetic in my writing to him because a few weeks ago he told me he loved and missed me and wished I was there. He asked me to write him a poem. He...

I guess I had hope it would somehow work out. I really loved this person, just not how I was being treated. I put myself in the situation and allowed these things to happen. I guess after being together over a year I had that dreaded word "expectations." I just needed to rant about it. I'm not...

We broke up for a month in the spring. He came back. Things seemed great at first. Now this! I didn't do anything last night. I am being accused of being passive aggressive. I'm not angry at all, just very confused and hurt. What is the point of mind games? Why not just tell the truth instead of...

He has been going thru a hard time recently and has distanced himself from me so bad I am questioning my own sanity. I wrote him a letter, a nice, loving letter, about how how much I love him. He said thank you. Then started questioning where it was coming from! What happened? I said, "I will...

I asked him that. He denies it and tells me I am overthinking things. How do I get it across to him that he really should tell me if this is the case without making him angry? I dont know what to do. Do I ask if there are others? What do I ask? I want treated with respect and dignity.

I have been dating an attached man for a year. Everything was going great. Recently he has been distant, cold. When I say I love you or miss you I get no response. I do not see him as often as I used to. I have attempted conversation about it. The response I get is confusing. I am feeling very...