Recent content by Finney

I didn't ask him to give up the whole hobby, merely one item of subject matter that cut too close to issues from my previous relationship. I brought it up early and stated my case when we started dating seriously, when I knew it would, unfortunately, cause issues for me dealing with trust and...

This is the main issue I think we have to work on, and are working on. That IS what our relationship had turned into, and I am actively wanting that to change, even if there was no poly that would be the same situation and case! We DO have time for each other, but we weren't working to isolate...

Hi. I'm firehaus' wife. You all are very nice for responding to him as he has started posting here with his thoughts and feelings. I know I don't have to clarify for all of you, as you have said, but I do think it would help you give him more accurate responses. He's right, I have had very...