Recent content by firetiger53

That's good! Communication is good for people in any relationship arrangement, of any relationship orientation. The less said, the worse in these cases. :) Are you in therapy right now, and is your therapist aware of what's going on? I have an interesting brain, as do my nearest-dearest both...

^ these things are really very important to remember especially. If they're not doing well, you won't be doing well -- even if it feels like you're doing a little too well. Metamour resentment, especially unvoiced, leads to broken relationships. Last in, first out. And if you think your emotions...

I'm not new to this, and I'm not 53, but you can call me that. Just 53. It's a good number. I've learned a lot about being secondary. I've learned even more about being me. Not looking. Just living. Here to see how others do it.