Recent content by Fleur-Du-Mal

Yes….. he does not like people to dictate him…..and also, did not want to go to the clinic bc he was being tracked…which is why i bought the home test kit. If he has another gf, i m cool with it. We talked about that already. He is not interested in anybody. So, him “cheating on me” is not the...

Thanks for taking the time to read me. My friend has been by my side when i was very depressed. He has been loyal to me and was by my side at the office when people started rumors about me. He would tell me who to watch out for…he has been very protective of me. he would have parties to cheer...

Galagirl, i love your honesty. My goal was initially to explore my feelings for him, and explore being in a relationship with him. I wanted and he wanted to “go for it.” I was ok with work interaction, msgs, and a date once a week. I did not want too much. I liked that balance. Unfortunately...

I appreciate all feedbacks! I know that i am not perfect! Probably just needed to hear you guys to see my relationship differently.

My bf was first ok with the testing. He hated the though of the hiv swab on the first date, but was a trooper and did it. We laughed about it and went on with our date. We have been using condoms. Always. We have been talking about getting tested and ditching condoms. I would try to ask for a...

Oh and as a side note . Our emotional affair was for 5 months, and we have been “dating” for 3 months (3 actual dates only).

Thank you for your kindness and support. It means a lot. I am not “out of the closet” and my husband is the only one i could talk to before i found this forum. I m also the first one in my marriage to try polyamory. My bf has been romantically chasing me for 6 months when i was monogamous….we...

I love this forum because it helps me see different viewpoints. My husband was just scared to catch something because of my new partner. We agreed to have me tested also with my bf. We always used condoms. I am already intimate with my bf. truth is we have had some kind of emotional affair for 5...

You cannot control your feelings and love is a beautiful thing. You should not feel guilty for experiencing love. Each relationship is unique and feels different. Maybe you need to bond more with S. Go on a date? Try a new activity together? I try not too compare my feelings for both of partners...

Ahaha all about the sales pitch. Wish i knew how!

He has no time for a relationship, so I am the first one to “try this out.” But yes, he would be under the same rule. Though, i think i could be more flexible with timelines. Is this a little too much? I m on date 3 technically! I feel like i cannot see a future with my bf because he does not...

Dear community, I am living my first polyamorous love story. It has been a lot of emotions. High are highs, lows are lows. Lots of joy, lots of tears…. Only had 2 boyfriends as a teenager and then my hub! So i would say i m really inexperienced…. My current boyfriend and I, have been having a...

Recently became polyamorous . It has alway been who i am, but was bringing me lots of shame. Which lead to my depression for years. My husband (12 years) and i are starting to find our balance. My friend with whom i have had a strong bond became my partner. We developed strong feelings quickly...