Recent content by folikeln

I think you're right, right about all of that. I will try to talk to M and help him understand how I feel. I will make A understand that he needs to have some idea of what he wants before he can ask what I want. Thank you so much, nycindie. You've really helped me figure things out. After I...

Genders are all correct. It may help to mention that the three of us are very young, they are college freshman and I am a year behind them. A and I were each other's first relationship and M had only been in one before. A and M had been close friends for years before, and while they were...

Ah, I didn't state that clearly enough. M is the one that wants to be monogamous with me, A is open to trying polyamory again. I do agree with what you guys have said, though. I don't love A more than M, I just miss what I had with him. Going back to A would mean at least another two months of...

In March of this year, my boyfriend A and I asked our best friend M to join our relationship. We were together until August, when A decided that he was not able to handle being with us any longer. For the past two months M and I have continued our relationship. It's been very difficult for us...