Recent content by foxygal

I appreciate everyone’s help with them mental adjustment from definitions of “rules” vs “boundaries”. You’re right, I’ve said what I need as far as boundaries go. And we’ve discussed “rules” which were broken. At this point I see I need to stand on my boundaries, to not feel disrespected anymore.

I asked that they not speak while we were trying to focus on mending our relationship (at least a few months). Also the sweetie spoke ill of me and my family online while arguing with my partner (not an expressed boundary prior, but I felt that should be common sense?)

I guess I’ll preface this with I love my wife, but I also want to love and respect myself. So I need advice… My partner and I have been together for a few years now. When we first got together, before we were married, we were poly. After many events we decided to be monogamous. I did say if...