Recent content by FrancescaRimini

Hi NYCIndie. These are all good questions. Jeff and I are continuing to talk and explore both of our feelings. I think although on a surface level, he understands that it is possible for me to love another and still love him, he is still having troubling "feeling it" deep down. He is...

Thank you NYCindie. Jeff is, as you surmised, a natural mono person I think. I deep down have always known I am poly, but never even had the vocabulary for it until quite recently. We have both read More then Two, and I have shared some other resources with him such as the "Poly Hell" blog post...

Thanks Kevin. I am feeling a bit more hopeful today. The heart attack has really made me question whether my poly relationship is viable for the following reasons: 1. I felt overwhelming need to be with John to the point that it shook me that I actually could be in danger of neglecting my other...

Thank you *Galagirl* thats good advice to take some time out for self care, I'm going to work from home tomorrow so I can build in some me-time and also be with Jeff as he is at home. I just heard from John and there is a roster in place of people who are going to stay with him. Which is a...

I’m in a state of emotional shock. Last week my secondary partner of eight months, let’s call him John, suffered a heart attack while I was staying at his house (we don’t live together). I had to call an ambulance and went with him to the hospital where he had an emergency angioplasty. I stayed...

Thanks for the warm welcome Kevin. Its been really interesting and fun to read some of the other members stories. I'm a bit isolated in RL at the moment but I am planning to attend a local poly meet up group in a few weeks time to hopefully meet some like minded people.

Hey everyone, Good to meet you all. This is all pretty new to me. I'm in the UK but there is no UK poly forum that I can see and I just got involved in a big fight on a mainstream parenting site (cough, Mumsnet) where it was made pretty clear that poly folks are not welcome. So here I am. I'm...