Recent content by Fred

This was very insightful, thank you! I think you are right, and without hearing from him, I believe he has been suppressing something deeper in this relationship that is now coming out. With some distance, I realised for myself it’s not too much about the woman actually, as I thought at first...

That you for taking your time and answering so thoroughly. 🙏🏻 For now, we have taken a few days apart to let it sink in. We will talk to a therapist this weekend to see what we make from this. Meanwhile. my partner has been showing signs of wanting to ”punish” me these days through very...

We have had moments before of changing agreements, but I have never experienced that within 15 min we had gone from having one agreement to him saying it's not working for him, and that if I cannot allow them to date and have their own say about what they want with each other, we break up. (They...

We are currently not dating anyone because life has not been suiting for it lately. My partner went through therapy program for 11 weeks battling weed addiction and I have been working a lot and also supporting him in this journey. But we have been poly since we met 3,5 years ago, and have been...

Hello, I am in a hierarchical polyamorous relationship where we are navigating a conflict regarding our "messy lists" and past boundaries. Early on, I expressed discomfort with my partner dating people from a period in his life when he was unfaithful to a previous partner (and friend of mine)...