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    does anyone else find meeting other poly people hard

    Hey everyone the last few weeks i have being trawling through the internet in order to meet poly people. so far no good, i just wanna make friends for now. any advice?
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    Help - my wife is moving too fast!

    It sounds like she already has one foot in the door to be honest. my guess would be she has felt like this for a long time and she has reached boiling point. She is trying to blame you for things not moving in the direction that she wants fast enough because she is frustrated. I would say...
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    Proposing polyamory to a partner for the 1st time. Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Yeah, I think listening to some stuff on Dan Savage could be good. Or just buy the book Sex At Dawn and read it in front of him. (This worked for me with my girlfriend.) It could go a few ways, though. He could be totally uninterested and not notice the hints. He could get the hints and be...
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    Hello from London

    Hey guys/girls Just getting into polyamory with my girlfriend. Finished the book Sex At Dawn recentley and am excited to start this new chapter of my life. Ciaran
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    emergency advice please

    Hi people I have just come out to my girlfriend that I want to be poly. she seems to have gone into a state of depression. i have tried to explain to her that it is nothing personal. it is just my sexuallity. she says she believes me but she cant be logical about it and she feels unattractive...
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    protection and women

    hey Im more talking about her feeling that it is un natural for a man to be ok with his girlfriend having a sexual relationship with another man. however the way I look at this is that, that may be so to some degree, however we have condoms and pregnancy control now so we dont need to worry...
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    protection and women

    Thanks for the advice. I think she is more afraid I will start trouble with her if she has another partner. This is not true, she is my best friend and I would never want her to by anything less than my primary partner. Although I understand completely her clear desire for other men and I think...
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    protection and women

    As I am new to the idea of polyamory I wonder what women feel about their partners not caring if they sleep with other men? I know my girlfriend is interested in other men however she said to me that she would be concerned about 'the protection feelings of a man towards his girlfriend if he...
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    Introducing polyamory to a relationship

    Hi guys, apologies if you have seen these questions a hundred times already. so basically I think polyamory is the way forward for me and my girlfriend. however these are the potensial issues I am thinking of. 1) we are both young (23 and 24) and her social conditioning is very conservative...
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