Recent content by FreeTheMind

Hey FT, I've been wondering how you have been doing. I see you are still on the rollercoaster. I have been, too. I apologize for being absent from the forum. Wife and I were down in FL for vaca. Had a great relaxing time and really enjoyed each other's company. Lots of great discussions too...

Thanks RedPepper! No they hadn't started anything yet. T came to me first which I really appreciate. Snow thank you also. That was a response I had to FreeTime and his journey he is taking. A lot of what he is feeling I have been too. I have to say I very much appreciate the sound advice and...

Thanks Mono! Knowing my wife like I do I believe she will take the high road on this one. I appreciate you saying it sounds like we are both on the right path.

Thank you nycindie Thank you for responding nycindie as your responses are always insightful! Just to clarify they had not talked about it. T brought this up to me first. She did mention that she could feel the potential sexual tension between them but nothing had been discussed. In T's...

Thank you Anneintherain Thank you for the thoughtful advice Anneintherain. You must of had a couple glasses of wine. ;) You validated everything I was thinking about what Polyamory is about from what I have read here and other places. My wife was very clear to me that this guy was not an...

I wanted to post the above to give some background about me and my wife. Last night wasn't a good night for me as we go on this journey. I know T has been thinking about this longer than me so I have been on a fast track to understanding, acceptance, etc. I am good for the most part on Poly and...

Thank you for your response FT! Thank you so much for responding, Freetime. I will remember this, and will be conscious of being gentle with myself and with my T. I really connected with a lot of the same thoughts and feelings you have been going through, and I continue to. This has not been...

Re: In over my head Freetime, I am new to all of this also (as in the last 5 days). I came across this forum and your post and spent the last few days reading through your journey and progress over the last 90+ days. Many times, reading your posts, along with the very insightful, compassionate...