Thank you all for your advice and opinions. I was very tired when I wrote that and I know I left out a lot that might clarify things. I also phrazed things a bit weird that made sense to my sleep deprived mind but probably not much to anyone who read it without the other facts. Mostly I think...
I really only ever wanted one man in my life but if we do end up in a V I would like someone special to spend some time with while they are together. I have had several men interested in me but not women. I would like to have a girlfriend. I had a female friend with benefits. That...
Children and Polyamory
My husband and I are actively trying to have a child. Our girlfriend is older than both of us and has an 18 year old son. When we talk about us having a baby she has very definate opinions about how a child should be raised and cared for. It's beginning to make me...
What about jealousy or envy being depressing?
I love my husband. I love our girlfriend but I still get jealous of how much affection she shows him that I don't feel a part of.
Warning. I'm going to hijack this thread now and ramble a bit.
From day one she's felt a deep passion for him and...
I'm FUNK2LOPEZ on OKC. I find it easier to use the same username for everything I can. I'm not on much since my computer is broke again and I'm using other peoples computers to just get online to catch up with everything. :(
Welcome to the board and happy hunting. I was one of the lucky few that found one. They do exist but finding them is hard and getting one that really works out is also hard. We are still working through some things and push each others' buttons but we know that we will work through each issue...
Well I'm not a unicorn but I am looking for a girlfriend to share passion with.
I'm currently in a triad that is fine with me having a secondary girlfriend (not that she would be treated as second fiddle or anything like that). She could be just with me or open to more with the rest of the...
I read this thread to the rest of my triad and we were thinking about have rings specially made out of Tungsten (as that is the only ring hubby will wear to work) with three trillium cut stones. Each stone is one of our birthstones. So it will be a ring completely dripping with symbolism for...
I love it. It must have a picture and I would wear it. I'd wear both of them (Mess in Progress and the Don't put your eggs in one basket case), actually. :D
It takes many to love a lot, with a picture of a large family could be another or something more eloquently put. I really enjoy shirts...
Welcome everyone. It's nice to have a working computer again to visit this forum with. :)
As for the jealousy issues it really depends on each person or situation. By that I mean are you the one that's jealous or is it one of your partners? Are you jealous of their time together apart from...
It seems to me that love finds you no matter where you are.
I found our girlfriend accidentally. I clicked on her profile instead of the link to the last thing posted on a different forum. She saw that I had looked at her profile and so she looked at mine. We (her, me, and my husband) are now...
No cry for help is ever stupid. It's when you don't ask that can really make things worse. I'm still very new to this also and all I can say is keep the communication as open and honest as possible.
Keep reminding him that he is the most important thing and show him that it's true and not lip...