thank you to everyone for your responses. we've talked about it and have decided that dating individually would be something to give a shot.
unicorn hunting shouldn't be your main focus dagferi. you shouldn't be putting us down for it either. we know the person that we're looking for is rare...
i don't see an issue with that.
even though we want someone for the both of us, individually dating isn't off the table either.
our unicorn will come when she's ready.
No we know of different ways to have/establish poly relationships. Dating individually is an option as well, just haven't dug into it. We knew that it would be a huge road to go down with adding someone to our relationship. Poly is having the capability to love multiples and that's definitely...
that's the sad part.
we don't have any. we go in open minded to every person we encounter. they show an interest in the both of us, then they shift their attention to just one of us.
Correct.
We've tried online. Don't really go out much, more of home bodies. I think that with us being in a new state it would make us want to go out more. So that's something to give a shot.
Any advice from other lesbians who are either in relationships [individually or triad]
We just moved to the san diego area from chicago. Haven't had much luck with sustaining a relationship, however we haven't tried dating individually yet. [something to give a try]
but please share any advice.