Recent content by gaiasrevenge

Thanks for that. There is a lot going on with his life at the mo. He's maybe losing his job, his parents are supposedly being insufferable regarding him still being there (although they've been lovely whenever I've been there) and the end of his debt management thing has probably just thrown him...

What I see here is a classic case of agreeing to something you weren't sure of to start with, and finding out that "not too sure" was actually your brain trying to say, "Oh, hell no!!!!" It's a crap situation, born out of many crap situations you have found yourself in, OP. You needed an...

Hello, all. I first joined this board a little over a year ago. I didn't post much, but read around as I began to accept that a poly setup was what I really wanted in my life. I'll try to make this as short as I can, but I can't promise anything. ;) Early last year, I discussed with my...

I can totally relate. My husband and I have been poly since early this year. I found a partner I really clicked with quite quickly and have been seeing him for six months. I had similar fears, that he'd suddenly say, 'Im not getting anywhere so I want you to stop seeing him.' It never happened...