Recent content by Gar86

To me this seems more like a daily planner for an orgy group. If it's a vee relationship I'm sure everyone to some extent talks and openly communicates. That's what I have so far and if we want to tell everyone something we use Facebook messenger. Why do I need a way to seperate my wife and a...

I have looked into a few sites but no luck. Any other info would at least be worth looking into for friends if nothing else.

It's going to be a good day!

I'm sorry to hear that this is not going well. I'm at the point In my life were if you don't accept my life then leave. Now there will be places I can't talk about this. Even though I haven't had a partner or anything the military would start looking into things, but other than that I'm fairly...

So I was just informed on the Christmas list of things is to do is potentially come out to my wife's(alisvolatpropriis) stuck up mother. She decided that no matter if new guy works out or not that she's tired of lying about who she is inside. My idea Christmas poly cookies. Maybe since we're...

definitely a first So this Christmas year will be a first. Alis and I have a new person in our lives and it's going positive. He may be around some during Christmas but other than that were doing Christmas with the kids. Fun will be I'm off during new years and everyone has agreed to go to New...

I'm now getting into reading everything everyone wrote. I agree you can pick someone just because of a physical attractions. Let's face it eventually the penis will go limp or the vagina will not be a happy camper and you'll have to talk to each other. I was suprised the other night after...

well fairly good news my wife was talking to a guy for a bit he was interested for the right reason and they met. He actually requested to meet me because he had questions. He came over last night and it was really fun. Way to early to go getting matching tattoo's or anything but if...

Our problem would be there are not too many places here in southern ms to meet like minded ppl. I know of 2 clubs but they"re swinger clubs and I don't really want to be stared at like a piece of meat. I completely respect their lifestyle but neither my wife or I want a quick hook up. At least...

So here's a post that doesn't involve spam! So my wife Alis started using ok cupid and the comments coming from her are hilarious. The first few guys started the conversation with penis pic and then that she was just a cheater. Then they stopped talking to her after she said her husband...

No lie we're still confused as hell and uncertain from day to day. We still have each other but don't always know where to go from there. Totally different talking about what we want than actually doing it or getting it. LR told her you have to kiss plenty of frogs and I think Alis (my wifes...

At least we have the us part figured out and we are much more open now. I'm glad we started this journey no matter if you have a secondary or not we have had the "talk" and know our boundaries.

This is the part that is harder to explain in my head i suppose: An intimacy with more than one person i think is the best way to explain what is in my head. With this comes learning a deeper connection with those we already have (my husband) and anyone else. It can be good for everyone. Im sure...

In regards to motivation-- "What is motivating you to want to be polyamorous, despite your shyness? You are maturing and want to branch out, find more platonic friends as well as, perhaps, a lover?" This I would agree with. It is a hard answer for me as I am still sorting it out in my own head...

Thank you, I plan on fixing one of the two if he wants to continue to post. He originally started this for me, though I am hesitant (starting or making this choice is difficult and I come off very defensive). We have been married almost 10 years and together 14. Im relieved to know it doesnt...