Recent content by GenerallyGeneric

Mess He isn't being an asshole to me. The only way I can best describe it is as her gaslighting, extremely successfully to her friends and family. Good enough that I do question that there might be some validity to what she is saying. I mean, logically you don't get pissed off at someone...

Familiar Yes! A lot of those traits were contained in just the single conversation I linked to. Always Never Statements Anger Avoidance (Self Admitted) Belittling Blaming Catastrophizing Chaos Manufacture Chronic Broken Promises Circular Conversation Confirmation Bias Emotional Abuse...

Another Update. So I have another update. They ended up having a huge falling out and I told her she was acting out of character and she told me to stop saying she wasn't normal and she doesn't need help. I didn't say those things but I thinks she knows they are true and was deflecting before I...

She doesn't have any mental health problems as far as she has disclosed and certainly hasn't acted strange or alarming in the past few years. I don't know how to say this nicely but she isn't an intellect by any stretch of the imagination. It's not so much that she couldn't learn, she can just...

Not Sure I'm really not sure what is going on. It seems to me that she has a very fairytale outlook on what a relationship is. Two people devoting their time exclusively to each other, going to bed and waking up together, no distractions or complications. I admit to having this type of view...

Update So I'm updating and it's not good. She basically did a complete 180. We went from looking at duplexes and exploring options for building a full apartment under a modular to her complete desire for monogamy. She doesn't want to schedule around 3 people, only 2. We did recently move so she...

Hi, I'm looking for some insight to figure out how to identify and properly explain to monogamous friends and family as well as find some clarity for myself. I (25F) am married to my husband (25M) and we have a brood of children. My husband is in a relationship with a woman (33F). She was my...