Recent content by girlpatrol

Wow, visiting that site made me feel so old. lol I'm only 38! Guess I could try sharpening my cougar claws... :p

I have no tats and no piercings aside from my ears... boring! The ONLY reason I've never gotten a tat is because I could never decide on what to get. Now, I have tons of ideas, that's no problem. It's just taking the leap! Maybe I'm a wuss. :p

Unfortunately for the relationships, and fortunately for my sanity, I've left abusive relationships in the past. Now, I do not suffer them well. Emotional abuse is a little harder for me to get my head around, because it deals directly with the matters of the heart, but through experience of...

Hello! 1) I *LOVE* Aeon Flux. Kids today don't know what they missed. The Charlize Theron movie was blergh. 2) Welcome! Hope you enjoy your stay and looking forward to learning more about you. :)

Hi Stu! Glad to have you with us. Just from your post you sound like you've got a solid footing already; it will be nice to read some of your insights over time. Also... zombie apocalypse! I loved "World War Z". I have a serious <3 for horror and especially good zombie movies. lol @...

Greetings! I went through something similar when I was younger as well. Being unable to figure out what I was feeling, I just bounced between two partners, but not in the best of ways. Over the years I've figured out a lot. I wish the same for you. Learning about yourself, your heart, your...

Welcome aboard! I'm going to echo AutumnalTone's post. Talk to her, but don't pressure her. Keep your spouse in the loop. Getting out of a serious relationship and directly into another can be an emotional storm. It's just not possible to switch feelings on and off. There's a process involved...

Ah! Me too! I'm a flexbian! :D I used to think I knew it all about myself. In high school, I was "definitely straight". When I was 20, I was "definitely bi". In my mid-20s, I was "definitely lesbian". When I hit 30, I was "maybe straight...??" for about a month, then to "1000% lesbian". At 35...

OP, the questions I'm asking myself about what you've written are these: 1) Are you having an instability or insecurity with your wife that you need to work on first? 2) Are there trust issues between you and your wife, regardless of whether there's another potential partner in the pic? 3) Is...

Greetings. I understand completely what you mean about having special friends and a wide range of emotions about them. Many of my years were also spent trying to understand why I never 'zeroed in' on one specific person for a relationship, and why I always had a variety of strong emotions about...

Greetings Aragorn, glad to have ya around. Fellow Southerner here, born in S Arkansas. Nice to meetcha. :)

Thank you, thank you. I have a bad sense of timing. But I promise that when work lets up I will come back and take you guys up on that coffee :D

We probably don't as I just moved here. :D But coffee sometime sounds great. Can I pencil you in in September? :o No social life in big new city = me agreeing to work overtime and weekends for the next 5 months at work. Blargh.

Hah! I got that, too. Me: According to your questionnaire responses, your attachment-related anxiety score is 4.57, on a scale ranging from 1 (low anxiety) to 7 (high anxiety). Your attachment-related avoidance score is 1.31, on a scale ranging from 1 (low avoidance) to 7 (high avoidance)...

A forgetful bug eater. That is awesome! I wish I could say I had some intriguing story for my screen nick. I usually go with "girlzone", a lyric from a Tori Amos song (Caught A Light Sneeze), but I guess I had Buffy on the brain, and "girlpatrol" came out. Not that Buffy isn't also awesome...