I didn't mean here as in this forum I just meant on the subject of unicorn hunting. thanks for the welcome. I'm just trying to find somewhere I belong in this world.
y'all should also tell them to read this whole website bc unicorn hunting is unethical as fuck and one of the reasons I have stopped dating anyone, at all, for a while https://www.unicorns-r-us.com/
And now I am single, just focusing on myself and not any kind of relationship... I think I will always consider myself a relationship anarchist, but that means that I'll always put myself at the top of any hierarchy. And hierarchy is what made me stop dating all together.
Monogamy felt...
I tried polyamory and polyamory was the catalyst that made me stop dating completely. I am here to learn and maybe heal? Because I still carry so much pain and I don't really know what to do with it.