Recent content by Goldhart23

Thanks Mark. Yes, it's very interesting all the possible combinations people can be involved in with this lifestyle to make things work. I first thought that, in my situation, if I had another boyfriend, then it would only be fair for my boyfriend to have another girl...but it doesn't (always)...

No, it really is not a payback type of thing with me. I had plenty of offers after he had cheated, but I turned them all down, because at the time, we both believed monogamy was the only option. The lack of sex thing has been a constant problem with him all along. He also had this problem...

Yes, I am skeptical that he would be honest with me if he had another girlfriend or went back to the other one. He wants to hold onto me, and fears honesty will drive me away, even though it hasn't yet. Thanks, Quath...I think you may be right.

More than a thank you... Hi and thank you Mono! Yes, I don't want him to just go along with it, either. I'm trying to make him understand that I have no intention of leaving him, but he's still afraid another guy will "sweep me away." I suggested that he could also have another girlfriend...

Thanks, Danny. I have a strong feeling that this will work out for me, but I'm not so sure about my boyfriend. He's a bit resistant so far, but is afraid of losing me if he doesn't go along. I hope someone comes along for him, too. *Barb*

Thanks, etc. Thank you! I do feel very welcome here. I've just connected finally with a second guy I've loved from afar for several years. I don't mean to diminish him by calling him "second," I just mean he came after my boyfriend. There is also a third interested, someone who has been a...

Thanks, Larry and Tim! I will check out the book you mentioned. Barb

Ohhhhh! You mean, "Manch-Vegas!!" LOL! Great city!:)

Thanks! Thank you, Nikkiana! I'm in the seacoast area...where are you, if you don't mind me asking?

Hey, everyone, I've recently begun talking about Polyamory with my boyfriend of 6 years. I've only just learned about it recently on the Steve Pavlina blog. My boyfriend says he feels a little uncomfortable about it, but that he doesn't want to lose my heart and wants me to be happy. He had...