Recent content by gort

I found out i was allergic to wellbutrin. Just when it was working. Hang in there.

I can't tell you how to fix your relationship. I'm not even sure you should. But I can tell you how to survive. First. Stay Alive. Sometimes thats all you can do. Second. Maintain your health as best as possible. Eat. Sleep. Bathe. Third. Maintain your job and a roof over your head. No...

Er.... that'll set you back a fair amount. The print version will require a whole shelf. I think you can get it on DVDs or subscribe to the online version. Anyway... I did look up Tocharian. Seems that's modernday china! So i kinda doubt it.

Merriam webster seems to put doubt on this last part. Seems unlikely to be synonym for shame. http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/wife The origins in either case are very old. Prior to 12th century.

You'll have to ask her. I've always thought gaydar to be unreliable. And poly-dar isn't going to be any better. A side note: some states have "domestic partner" laws. They are really aimed toward gays but are very much available to straight people too. So, it could actually indicate a legal...

That's better. 1) Male 2 thru 5) I have not. I might at some point. but not right now. Her husband might want to watch th 2 of us as some point. I've said no for now. 6) er.... Well the me and 2 girls thing is a nice thought. But i havn't got a spare girl handy at the moment. There might be the...

Very true! And I'm truly in love with only one girl.:) I forgot to add the bit on safer sex. Right now it's more about pregnancy prevention than any real worry about disease. She has an IUD and I committed to condoms for the time being to be double-sure. The reason I'm not particularly worried...

We don't have many right now. My girlfriend and I are allowed to love each other and have a bit of privacy. And I give the same to the relationship between her and her husband. No kinky bondage sex. (I don't go for that anyhow.) Other than that, not much. I, for one, would not be in a...

Seriously? You need to set up your survey better.

Time mostly. And a lot of crying. Medication may help. Or they don't and decide to end it. Been there. Almost did that. Twice. Please don't do that. I feel for you. Your life sucks right now and there's little you can do about it. That you wife fell in love..... not so bad. That the fell in...

We actually discussed the word secondary. I don't like it. The whole primary/secondary structure kinda grates on me. I'm important and respected in my own right. As I respect their relationship, I expect mine to be respected too. And so help me god, if it were legal, I'd marry her too...

Thanks, Opal and everybody. I'll give Us some time to figure out Us before having to deal with the world at large. We took a huge risk in getting together. In being more than friends. I risked not being able to ever see her again in any capacity if this went badly. That would have been...

I think I'm going to need a SDR* for all the MLAs**. :p I found NRE in the sticky. I think I know DADT already. But I have a feeling there are more where those came from. I'm still following this thread, but I've got to go to bed now. Good night. And sincere thanks to all respondents. *Secret...

Well. I'm not entirely sure. Usually our walks involve the baby stroller, which really takes both hands for one of us. Walks often involve Family Music Time at the library on Saturdays. She used to work at the library. Her position with the police was actually considered a transfer. She's a...

I've loved her forever. I've been hanging out and being close friends even longer. Since high school. And we're all now in our 30s. Kissing and the rest started about 7 weeks ago. I could have honestly said I didn't even kiss her before then. She says that if the closet feels claustrophobic...